Ladies and Gents , this ones for all of you

chicago bbw escortGentlemen, this article is actually more in defense of you , than against you .. but I do want to start with the following situations

First it is important for men to remember women, in sex work, have real lives. We are real people, with kids, families, emergencies etc
just like any other human being. 

Make a mental note of that and do not ever forget it when dealing with us on any level.


From time to time, long distance admirers or even locals who are too scared to meet in person or who cannot meet in person arise.

These gents decide they want to wire money, buy gift cards, what have you. Any girl I know including myself is going to welcome that and be very grateful.

In  some cases we will even agree to certain conditions, like a skype show, or meeting up with you in person if and when we tour your area.


NOW this goes back to boundaries, the fact that we have real lives, and the fact that we have clients and unless you paid for an exclusive arrangement..

You must have some patience. The gentlemen we meet in person are always going to get first dibs on our time. We fit in skype, phone chats, texting etc around those other engagements. I am particularly annoyed when I try to be nice , try to accommodate and a gent acts like we are now boyfriend and girlfriend or like he  cannot respect that I am with my children, ( I do not even want to text when I am spending time with them, respect that) or when I have not offered sexting, I DO NOT SEXT, I will talk to you on the phone, get to know you ( since that’s what you claimed you wanted) but even then ONLY during the scheduled phone sessions I put you down for. I will do skype shows DOING THE TIME I PUT YOU DOWN FOR. I will in some cases work out a meet in person arrangement for when I visit your area.

NOW men love to play the victim card and say they were not given time owed, they were not given this or that. Heres the deal I give a direct schedule of days and hours for agreements. I will not chase you down to make you keep the schedule. You are an adult it is up to you , to keep the arrangement. It is also up to you to adhere to the parameters of the arrangement and not try to overstep it.

If you overstep it, I will simply ignore you , regardless of said finances sent. You have to stick to the terms.

I AM FAIR, I will not steal from, mistreat or disrespect you, Please be respectful of my time and life  as well.



NOW I just wanted to lead with that because I hear that said to many times about ladies and deposits, ladies and tributes etc. So now on to the part  where I TAKE THE SIDE OF
UNDERSTANDING FOR THE GUYS!

I know you are in shock, but right is right and wrong is wrong….


Gentlemen, in light of some antics of some providers I fully understand why  you may be wary of screening info and of deposits.

Lately there seems to be ladies threatening men with extortion, or blackmail and even threatening to out them.


I AM NOT A LADY WHO SAYS OUTTING IS A NO NO, BUT I AM ABSOLUTELY A LADY WHO SAYS THAT WE DO NOT , I REPEAT WE DO NOT EVER OUT A CLIENT FOR FINANCIAL GAIN.
WE OUT DANGEROUS CLIENTS, CLIENTS WHO MAY BE L.E , CLIENTS WHO HAVE THREATENED US. BUT IT IS AN ABSOLUTE NO NO TO THREATEN TO OUT SOMEONE TO GET MONEY OUT OF THEM.

Ladies we have to give the same respect we expect.  Most of you are terrified of being outted , of having your “civie, vanilla” friends know what you do.


Some of you have been outted and hated it , and suffered due to it. Therefore unless a client truly , truly deserves to be outted we don’t do that.


Ladies some of us really practice screening, real life screening, to protect ourselves, I hate that men are terrified to give real life info because some of you are stealing from clients, credit cards, money out of the wallet when they visit you and a host of other things I am hearing and reading of lately and  then on top of it threatening the client who you wronged.  Or threatening to extort clients who don’t show up for an appointment. SIMPLY require an additional deposit next time you book them,or blacklist them and don’t book them at all BUT LADIES THE EXTORTION crap has to stop.


Touring is expensive and now men are also terrified to pay deposits, which when touring is so important to ensure you atleast break even.

Men the deposit money for us touring is SO IMPORTANT, its necessary!
MEN , please understand this NOT all of us are out to steal from you, extort you, threaten to out you.


I ONLY WANT YOUR INFO TO ENSURE I AM SAFE OR THAT THE LADIES I SCREEN FOR ARE SAFE AND TO ENSURE YOU AREN’T LE.

AS FOR THE DEPOSITS, THEY ARE NECESSARY AS TOO MANY MEN, PLAY GAMES, WASTE TIME, FLAKE AND BEING AN ESCORT IS EXPENSIVE, ITS CLOTHES, SHOES, UPKEEP, LAUNDRY, INCALL COSTS, TRAVEL COSTS, AD AND MARKETING COSTS,  PLEASE RESPECT WHY DEPOSITS ARE THE BEST WAY TO SHOW A LADY YOU ARE SERIOUS.

Gents I do apologize for the few that are bad apples, but we are not all part of that bunch.


Thank you for understanding!



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